writing & publishing


I am working on a new manuscript. Actually it’s a combination of two older manuscripts (WHEN THERAPY ISN’T ENOUGH, how to fill the holes counseling doesn’t fill and WHEN RELIGION ISN’T ENOUGH, embracing the gift of relationship). The title of the new manuscript will be where healing can be found, WHEN THERAPY ISN’T ENOUGH.

As some of you may know, the company that published my first four books, Tate Publishing Company, went out of business about one year ago. Before totally shutting down, they offered to sell print-ready copies of author’s manuscripts to the authors. I purchased a print ready copy of When Doing Isn’t Enough and had this published and re-released by Credo House Publishers. I did not publish print-ready copies of the other three manuscripts because of my intention to combine two of them into one, and because the third manuscript, When the Glass Ceiling is Stained, had already been incorporated into WHEN GOING WITH THE FLOW ISN’T ENOUGH, swim upstream which had recently been published by Credo House Publishers.

So, for the next few months, I plan to hibernate and write. I hope life doesn’t interfere as it has a tendency to do.

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Christians for Biblical Equality, an organization based in Minneapolis, posted an awesome review of my book When Going with the Flow Isn’t Enough, on their website. For those who are interested, here is the link to the review: https://www.cbeinternational.org/resources/review/book-review-when-going-flow-isnt-enough

What’s more, they are now stocking that book in their online bookstore! PRAISE GOD!

ATTN: HISTORY BUFFS

I just finished reading Clint Hill’s book Five Presidents. Two years ago I read his book Mrs. Kennedy and Me. I loved both books, didn’t want to put either one down as I was reading it, and was sad when each ended.

Clint Hill (a Secret Service agent from 1958 to 1975) and his coauthor Lisa McCubbin are gifted writers who do an excellent job conveying the humanity of five of our presidents and their families. Due to having occupied such a front row seat during some of the most tumultuous years in our history, Mr. Hill opened a window for his readers to peek behind the scenes during the Cuban Missile Crisis; the assassinations of President Kennedy, Martin Luther King Jr., and Robert Kennedy; the race riots; the anti-war demonstrations; Watergate; and the resignations of Spiro Agnew and Richard Nixon.

If you want to be transported in time to these years in the United States, I highly recommend reading one or both of these books. I am fairly certain you will get so immersed in the words that you will feel like you are actually present during these events alongside Clint Hill.

I am in the early stages of working on a new manuscript and have been lost in the writing zone for the past few weeks. I have several chapters each partially finished. Every time I think I finished a chapter another thought pops into my head and I go back and rework it. In addition, I keep changing the order of the chapters.

One lesson I have learned over the years that I’ve been writing is that I have to respect and trust the creative process. Part of the creative process is this chaotic disorder. Experience has taught me that order will eventually come out of disorder, however, tolerating the disorder is difficult for someone like me who likes structure.

Another lesson I have learned is that the creative juices are either flowing or they’re not. When they’re flowing I need to set aside whatever I’m doing if at all possible and write. When I do, the words pour out of me. On the other hand, if I try to write when the creative juices are not flowing, it is nothing less than an exercise in futility. It’s like trying to get blood from a stone.

As you may know, the company that published my first four books, Tate Publishing Company, went bankrupt earlier this year. Before they went out of business they offered to sell a print ready file of each of the author’s manuscripts to the author for a small fee. I purchased only one print ready file, When Doing Isn’t Enough. Credo Communications is now re-publishing that book. One of my other books, When the Glass Ceiling is Stained, was incorporated into my newest book, When Going with the Flow Isn’t Enough, so I didn’t need that print-ready file. AND, my first two books, When Therapy Isn’t Enough and When Religion Isn’t Enough, will be incorporated into the manuscript I’m currently working on.

Excerpts from When Doing Isn’t Enough:

Waiting is not popular in our modern society. Immediate gratification is popular. We want what we want now, and we do everything possible to get whatever it is we want now and avoid waiting. Sometimes waiting is unavoidable though and we have no choice but to wait… God appears to like waiting and seems to require it of anyone who will be used by him, particularly those who will be used in a significant way.

Waiting on God means that you are willing to look to God for guidance and direction, and are willing to abide by his timing regarding the events in your life. It means accepting that God knows better than you do what is in your best interest. It means putting God in the driver’s seat of your life. Waiting on God requires surrendering to him.

In light of all of this though, waiting on God is not passive waiting. It is not helpless waiting. It is not unproductive waiting. Waiting on God is active waiting. Waiting on God requires a conscious decision to trust God and wait on him no matter what, to not let fear run your life and to live by faith, putting one foot in front of the other even when you can’t see the path.

Waiting on God also requires a clear understanding of what I can do and what I cannot do, what I have control over and what I do not have control over. God will not do for us what we can do for ourselves. We need to do what we can do, and leave to God the things we cannot do.

If one is to willingly agree to wait on God one first has to know God, the real God not a distorted image of God. The real God is love. He doesn’t have love. He doesn’t show love. He is love. It’s his character.

Trust is inherent in waiting. It’s easy to trust God when everything is going well for us, when our life circumstances and situations are in our favor. It’s not so easy to trust him when life seems to turn against us.

Political and social movements which have changed the course of human history have always been orchestrated by individuals with a clear vision, a consuming passion, the courage to swim upstream against the status quo, the willingness to deal with the consequences of swimming upstream, and the perseverance to keep going no matter what.

Though tremendous legislative strides have been made regarding both racial and gender equality, it is sad but true to acknowledge that racism and sexism still exist. They exist because “isms” are not legal conditions, they are heart conditions and legislation does not change hearts. Civil rights legislation taught us that. I believe that if sexism and racism are to truly come to an end, hearts need to change in a way that leaves people color-blind and gender-blind, seeing each other as equal—different yet equal.

My newest book, When Going with the Flow Isn’t Enough, Swim Upstream, discusses how the Christian Church has contributed to maintaining gender inequality in the U.S. Throughout the book I encourage people to swim upstream against gender inequality wherever they see it. Excerpt from Introduction: “Helen Keller once said, ‘I cannot do everything, but I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do.’” Final words of the book: “Because God planted a passion inside me for a very specific calling and wired me with the temperament to fulfill this calling, I will not refuse to do the something I can do. I hope you do too.” Because I wrote these words I feel compelled to live them, i.e. walk the talk.

When Bobby Kennedy campaigned for the democratic presidential nomination in 1968 he repeatedly stated “Some men see things as they are and say why. I dream things that never were and say why not.”

My dream is that individuals will be able to make choices re: roles within families and relationships based on talents, abilities and spiritual gifts, rather than being assigned roles based on gender. Though I have this dream, I do not have any illusions that I will lead a political or social movement which will result in full gender equality. I also have no illusions that gender equality will become a reality in my lifetime. I wrote the book and try very hard to walk the talk in the hope that I will plant seeds for change in some hearts

Word of Caution: Those of us who are called to fight for gender equality in the church need to be careful about how we measure success. We need to remember that we can only control what we do, we cannot control what anyone else does in response to what we do. We also need to remember that this change in the church will only come when hearts change, and we cannot change hearts. Only God can change a heart. He may use us as instruments to change hearts, but he is the one who does the heart changing.

Another word of caution: As we swim upstream to advocate or fight for gender equality in the church, conflict and controversy will inevitably follow. We need to face it head on and deal with it in healthy ways. That’s what Jesus and the early apostles did when conflict and controversy erupted in response to their efforts to transition people from the old covenant to the new covenant. We cannot however, be conflict creators. We cannot create conflict for the sake of creating conflict. If we do that we are not operating out of pure motives. On the other hand, we cannot be conflict avoiders. If we are conflict avoiders we are operating out of fear, and “God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).

For the record, it is not easy to swim upstream and walk the talk. Please know that I understand that what I’m asking people to do is not easy, and that I am not asking anyone to do anything I am not willing to do myself.

Abraham Lincoln for the Defense by Warren Bull is historical fiction focusing on the period of Lincoln’s life in which he was a young attorney in Springfield, Illinois. It recounts the story of Lincoln defending two men accused of murder. In the Author’s Note at the beginning of the book Mr. Bull states: “…one interpretation of what might have happened…work of fiction…book is based on actual events…legal cases presented are based upon actual cases.”

Abraham Lincoln for the Defense reminded me of Leon Uris’s novels in that the culture of the time and place in which the events occurred is described with tangible accuracy; the description of the characters is full-bodied and multi-dimensional; and the dialogue is natural and believable. As I was reading the book I could see and hear the characters in my mind.

Some of my favorite quotes from the book are:

• “In this country we don’t have a king or an aristocracy to tell us what to do. Politics is the responsibility and duty of all of us…imperfect as it is, politics is what we have to work with.”

• “We will not resolve the thorny differences that strain the bonds of brotherhood by polite words over tepid cups of tea. We need the rough-and-tumble exchange of verbal thrust and parry.”

• “…some things legally right are not morally right.”

This book is a good read for anyone, however, history buffs in particular would probably really like this book.

Link: https://www.amazon.com/Abraham-Lincoln-Defense-Warren-Bull/dp/0998454613/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1496281750&sr=1-1&keywords=Warren+Bull

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