My name is Mary Detweiler. I am an author.

My writing is rooted in my life. When Therapy Isn’t Enough chronicles the road I traveled to heal my emotional wounds. When Religion Isn’t Enough chronicles my spiritual journey. When the Glass Ceiling is Stained describes the obstacles I encountered when I tried to exercise the spiritual gift of leadership I had been given.

I grew up in an Irish Catholic family with an alcoholic father. When I left my family and struck out on my own in my early 20′s I left with many hurts, habits and hang-ups, most of which I was unaware of. A major focus of my adult life has been becoming aware of, recovering from and healing the wounds of my childhood. That journey has been long. It has also been painful, frustrating, scary, exciting and wonderful. Along the way I have met some awesome and courageous people who have inspired me and helped me. I am truly grateful for each and every one of them.

My journey is not over. I continue to be a work in process. I am, however, at a place where I feel peace and joy, even amidst life’s storms. The wonderful thing now is that my inner peace does not increase or decrease according to the situations and circumstances I find myself in. It is constant and stable because it is rooted in my personal relationship with God. My life now, though it is not always pleasant or fun or easy, is exciting because it is goal directed and “purpose driven” (to use Rick Warren’s phrase).  My goal and purpose is to constantly seek to understand God’s will for my life, day to day and season by season, and to do my utmost to align myself with His will for me. That’s where the joy is!

In 1981 I received an MSW (Masters in Social Work) from Simmons College in Boston. For the next 27 years I worked on and off as a mental health professional in both inpatient and outpatient mental health settings. The off times were due to relocations (due to marrying a man who works in the corporate world) and to having babies. In 2003 I stumbled on Celebrate Recovery, a Christ-centered recovery program, and was immediately hooked. I knew that I knew that I knew that this is where I belonged. In 2005 I began writing a book about how Celebrate Recovery has helped me. I self-published it in 2008 due to being unable to get a publishing company to take a risk on me, an unknown author. In 2008 I also walked away from my career as a mental health professional and threw myself completely into Christ-centered recovery.

Once my first book (When Therapy Isn’t Enough, How to Fill the Holes Counseling Doesn’t Fill) was self-published I started working on a second book and I continued to send query letters to publishing companies. After accumulating a LARGE pile of rejection letters I received an acceptance letter from Tate Publishing Company. They offered me a contract to publish the book I had self-published and another contract to publish the book I was working on (When Religion Isn’t Enough, Embracing the Gift of Relationship). When Therapy Isn’t Enough was released in Spring 2011. When Religion Isn’t Enough was released in Spring 2012. My third book (When the Glass Ceiling is Stained, Who’s the Architect) was released in February, 2014.

4 Responses to “About”

  1. Bro. Billy Says:

    Thanks for adding me to your blogroll. I consider it an honor. I trust that in someway the Lord used it to touch you and I thank you for passing it on.

    I read your testimony and pray that God will continue to work mightily in your life. I have lifted up your name in prayer and know that He will guide and direct in your life. Your step outside your comfort zone demonstrates your desire to grow and follow the Lord’s leading.

    Thou wilt shew me the path of life; in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore. – Psalm 16:11


  2. Thank you Billy. Your comment was encouraging and inspirational to me. Thank you for lifting me up in prayer. I would appreciate it if you would continue to do that.

    Mary

  3. kathryneann Says:

    Mary, I am encouraged by your perseverence in submitting query letters, despite the rejections. It is always heartening to read another authors success tale. Blessings to you as you write and lead others to wholeness in Christ.


  4. “A major focus of my adult life has been becoming aware of, recovering from and healing the wounds of my childhood. That journey has been long. It has also been painful, frustrating, scary, exciting and wonderful.” I like this. And this is, in large part, my current focus. It is a difficult journey, but so very, very worth it!

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