It may surprise some people to know that not all Christ-followers are conservative and vote Republican. I believe that Jesus calls His followers to love liberally.

Love Thy Neighbor …
Thy Homeless Neighbor
Thy Muslim Neighbor
Thy Black Neighbor
Thy Gay Neighbor
Thy Immigrant Neighbor
Thy Jewish Neighbor
Thy Christian Neighbor
Thy Atheist Neighbor
Thy Disabled Neighbor
Thy Addicted Neighbor

It is important to remember that we can love and accept people for WHO they are, without accepting WHAT they do.


Excerpt, When Going with the Flow Isn’t Enough:

Question: Where do women belong in the twenty-first-century church?
Answer: Wherever God places them.

God has carved out places for every one of his daughters in his church, and he wants us to occupy the places he chose for us. Whatever spiritual gift or gifts you were given, you were given for a reason and a purpose, and he wants you to use it for the purpose he chose for you. He does not want you to hide it. If you choose to hide your gift(s), God is displeased. In his book The Purpose Driven Life Rick Warren states “You don’t bring glory or pleasure to God by hiding your abilities or by trying to be someone else. You only bring him enjoyment by being you. Anytime you reject any part of yourself, you are rejecting God’s wisdom and sovereignty in creating you.”


This was a Facebook memory from 2014. Decided to share it here.

I did not sell any books at my book signing yesterday. I bought one instead. As a store employee was setting up the space for the book signing a book caught my eye. It was titled A CALL TO ACTION: Women, Religion, Violence and Power by Jimmy Carter. I have already read the first four chapters and it has really grabbed hold of me. Here is an excerpt from the inside front cover: “A Call to Action addresses the suffering inflicted upon women by a false interpretation of carefully selected religious texts and a growing tolerance of violence and warfare. Key verses are often omitted or quoted out of context by male religious leaders to exalt the status of men and exclude women.”

Perhaps rather than selling books God had a higher purpose in mind for me at that bookstore yesterday.

I was watching The Today Show this morning when the court of public opinion was referenced. I immediately felt grateful and relieved that I have learned to live my life for an audience of One, and not be swayed by the opinions of human beings.

Excerpt from When Therapy Isn’t Enough:

My spiritual wounds healed during my time of spiritual re-education … I learned that my worth and value come solely from being a child of God … I don’t have to please others or gain others’ approval in order for God to love me. He loves me no matter what, and he knew me and loved me before he placed me in my mother’s womb. There is nothing I can do to make him love me more, and there is nothing I can do to make him not love me. His love for me is not based on what I do or who I am. It is based on who he is. Feeling secure in his love, I now gratefully live my life for him. I am no longer bound by a sick need to please human beings and obtain their approval. I am living my life for an audience of One.


I have recently had several speaking engagements and would very much like to do more. Some of the talks I have developed and presented are:

  • Mental Health: It’s a Choice
  • The Intersection of Mental Health, Gender Equality and the Church
  • Discovering and Living Your Purpose
  • Writing as a Tool for Christian Ministry

One workshop I have developed though have not yet had an opportunity to present is Finding Fulfillment.

If anyone knows of and/or can facilitate a speaking opportunity for me I would greatly appreciate it.



Being a Christian is not about going to church, it’s about having a personal, intimate relationship with Jesus Christ and allowing yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit, rather than being governed by the law. Bruxy Cavey communicated this truth eloquently and clearly in his book The End of Religion (Colorado Springs, Colorado: NavPress, 2007). Some of my favorite quotes from that book are:

  • There is a difference, an important difference, between relating to God through systems of doctrine, codes of conduct, inherited traditions, or institutions of power, and relating to God directly, soul-to-soul, mind-to-mind, heart-to-heart. Jesus taught this distinction, lived this message, and was killed because of its implications.
  • Jesus’ call into a rule–free, principle–based spirituality is very difficult for religious people to fathom. Certainly, rule–less spirituality is only a constructive way to live if love is the guiding dynamic, the foundational principal of our lives. This is essential to Jesus’ message. Jesus never made rule–breaking a worthy goal in and of itself. His point was that rule–keeping should be a natural expression of something deeper, rather than a goal unto itself. Simply remove rules and you are left with anarchy. Transcend rules with love, and you are beginning to live like Jesus.
  • So here is the great irony – Jesus is happy to see his followers get organized in order to help spread the message that organizations are not the answer. Christ-followers read the Bible to learn of Jesus’ teaching that reading the Bible is not what makes us a Christian. We pray regularly in order to commune with the God who reminds us that praying regularly is not what makes us acceptable to him. We meditate to immerse our souls in the love of God that is already ours, not in order to somehow achieve a state of self-induced enlightenment. And we go to church to collectively celebrate the message that going to church is not what makes us God’s children.

But, Know This is the third novel in a series by Cheryl Robinson about three young women who meet in college and establish lifelong friendships. The series spans their lives from college to late middle age, with each book focusing on the challenges and struggles each face in that particular stage of adulthood. A central theme of each book is how each one’s “treasured relationship with God” helped her face and overcome these challenges.

As with the first two books, the story told in But, Know This was gripping, the book hard to put down. The characters are full-bodied and multi-dimensional. The dialogue is natural and believable. As I was reading the book, I could close my eyes and easily visualize the characters, almost hearing and touching them. I was truly disappointed when I reached the last page.

Although But, Know This is the third book in the series it could easily be read as a stand alone novel. Some of my favorite quotes from the book are:

  • She had dreaded sharing…fearing judgment as she exposed the circumstances of her family’s life…telling the story had the opposite effect…The more she revealed the lighter she felt…Gone was the baggage she’d carried much too long as were the shame and anger that had eaten at her for years.
  • God has specific plans for each of you and, I believe, the greatest fulfillment in life is to be obedient to God’s plan and purpose.

If you would like to purchase But, Know This go to:

If you would like to read my review of the first two books go to: